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Ellie Messinger-Adams LPCC

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Licensed Professional Clinical Counselor, CA 14196 ēma therapy
Available this week
Specialties: Pregnancy, Prenatal, Postpartum, Postpartum Depression, Parenting, Life Transitions, Work Stress,
Insurance: Lyra EAP, Out of Network, PPO plans cover out of network
Accepting clients impacted by disaster

Introduction

Hi, I’m Ellie As a mom of two, I know motherhood can feel anxious and overwhelming. And as a therapist, I’m here to help you breathe—I mean really breathe—through the chaos with a little laughter. Because let’s be real: motherhood is a lot. Through personalized, mind-body therapy, we’ll help you feel more confident, set boundaries without guilt, and regulate emotions. You deserve to be grounded, present, and fully you—for your family and yourself. Therapy Specializations Feel calm, confident, and connected—at every stage of motherhood. Let’s get to the root of what’s holding you back and heal from the inside out. Calming Your Mom Anxiety You’re always five steps ahead, managing everything—and still wondering if it’s enough. The mental load is nonstop, and the anxiety? Just background noise now. But it doesn’t have to be. Here, we slow down. We bring the nervous system into the room. We make space for fear without letting it lead. Whether you’re pregnant, postpartum, or deep in toddler life, this is therapy for anxious moms who are done sprinting. You get to feel calm, think clearly, and be present—with your people and yourself. Feel Confident that You Are Enough You’ve spent your life pushing, proving, performing. You used to stay late, go the extra mile. Now you’re racing home to a version of yourself who’s not sure who she is anymore. Motherhood comes with an invisible measuring stick—and you always feel like you’re falling short. Through a relational, client-centered approach, we’ll untangle those voices, explore where they came from—perfectionism, people-pleasing, or survival strategies that no longer serve you. You don’t need to be perfect. You just need space to be human—and still feel like enough. Reconnect with Yourself After Trauma Maybe you don’t talk about what you’ve been through—your childhood, your birth, or the weight you carry. But you feel it. In how you freeze when your child cries. In the grief at work. In the moments you barely recognize yourself. Sometimes it starts even earlier—when imagining motherhood brings up what you haven’t had space to process. Whether you’re planning, pregnant, or parenting, we’ll gently explore the stuck places and offer what they’ve always needed: compassion, safety, and a path forward—so you can step into motherhood feeling grounded and whole Check out my official website at ematherapy.com to learn more about my practice

PRONOUNS She/Her/Hers
RACE & ETHNICITY Jewish

Highlights

  • Accepting new clients
  • Available on nights
  • Offers free consultation
  • In-person & telehealth appointments
  • Accepts online payments and insurance

Licenses

  • LPCC #14196 (CA) We've used a trusted third-party service to verify this practitioner's license.
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Specialties

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Population focus

Appointment types

  • Individuals
  • Families
  • Classes
  • Coaching

Communities

  • LGBTQIA+
  • People with Disabilities
  • Military/Veterans
  • Feminism

Age groups

  • Teenagers (12-18)
  • Young Adults (18-24)
  • Adults (24+)

Languages

  • English

Faiths

  • Jewish
  • Catholic
  • Interfaith
  • Christian
  • Agnostic
  • Atheist
  • Latter-day Saints/Mormon
  • Buddhist
  • Islam
  • Hindu
  • Multi-Faith

Payment options Free intro call available

Pay with insurance

Ellie Messinger-Adams LPCC accepts these insurance providers. What you pay depends on your plan.
  • Lyra EAP
  • Out of Network
  • PPO plans cover out of network

Pay out-of-pocket

  • Individual $250
  • Mother/Child Bonding Therapy $280

Locations

Carlsbad Office
6994 El Camino Real, Suite 205
Carlsbad, CA 92009-4116
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San Marcos
334 Via Vera Cruz #255
San Marcos, CA 92078-2635
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Video Office

Frequently asked questions

Is Ellie Messinger-Adams LPCC accepting new clients and do they offer online appointment requests? Ellie Messinger-Adams LPCC is currently accepting new clients and can be booked on the Therapy Finder website. Ellie Messinger-Adams LPCC also offers a free consultation.
Does Ellie Messinger-Adams LPCC offer telehealth appointments? Ellie Messinger-Adams LPCC does offer telehealth appointments. You can request to book a telehealth appointment with them on their Therapy Finder profile.
What areas does Ellie Messinger-Adams LPCC specialize in? Ellie Messinger-Adams LPCC specializes in the following areas: ADD/ADHD, Anxiety, Depression, Life Transitions, Parenting, Postpartum Depression, Pregnancy, Prenatal, Postpartum, Trauma, and Work Stress.

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